LordArt ([info]lordart) wrote,
@ 2005-06-05 15:37:00
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Current mood:devistated

Death of Love
I'm annoucing that the Love of my life and I are getting a divorce. This has shocked most people and still shocks me. Amy has changed and blames me for something rather pety and selfish, and so feels what she is now doing to me is justified to force me to divorce her. I will go into FULL details in another more private post. Everyone disagrees with what Amy is doing and why, but that isn't stopping her. If anything we both are is stubborn. I just truely hope that one day she can overcome her demons, forgive me and forgive herself. I do still want the best for her, but she no longer believes that. I will stop now before I tell the world too much of my private life.

Needless to say, this is why I have disappeared for so long for those that know me online. I was trying despirately to resolve the issues to no avail. While I will not say either party is innocent, I think the actions taken have been extreme.

I have been extremely devisated by what is going on and I thank everyone again for their support through all of this.




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[info]gbcahawk
2005-06-05 10:57 pm UTC (link)
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God, I'm so sorry Art. I hope things get better as fast as they can for you.

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[info]sk4p
2005-06-05 11:34 pm UTC (link)
Art, I'm so sorry. I wish I knew what to say or do that would help.

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[info]storm_seeker
2005-06-05 11:53 pm UTC (link)
Ugh. I'm so sorry Arthur. I'd suspected this for awhile, but nobody would tell me anything and I didn't want to bother you via email. One of those few times I kept hoping I was wrong. I wish things would improve for both of you together, but from the tone of your post that doesn't sound likely :/

So I guess instead, I'll say that I hope both of you come through this and find some light at the other side, and some understanding. And I hope that whatever happens, it doesn't affect alex too much. He's probably too young to realize the depth of what's going on, but I'm sure it'll be having some effect and will do so later in his life. Hopefully he'll have yours and Amy's resilience and not let it adversely affect his life in the future.

I'll stop now, because I really don't have the words or the English to convey the feelings. Separations suck, whether you're the party doing the separating or just stuck in the middle. Misunderstandings as the cause, make them ten times worse. I doubt there is, but if there's anything I can do to help (with this or Omni or otherwise), or if you just want to vent, you have my email/AIM.

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[info]kinkyjesus
2005-06-06 02:47 pm UTC (link)
That is the problem with being a good friend... When someone has a somewhat private problem, and you are helping them deal with it, you can't say anything about it...

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[info]lilithscat
2005-06-07 04:28 am UTC (link)
I knew things were rough between you two but I didn't know how rough. I am sorry for your pain and I am here if you need to vent or if you want a friend. If you need me, I am here.

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[info]bkwyrm
2005-06-07 04:47 pm UTC (link)
I'm so sorry, Arthur.

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[info]cowboy_
2005-06-14 03:41 am UTC (link)
I'm really sorry to hear that, Art. I honestly hope things come out well for both of you, and that you can be happy again soon.

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